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What if I Paid Someone Back in the Year Before Bankruptcy?

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In a Nutshell

If you're filing for bankruptcy, you probably owe many debts. If you repay some of those debts but not others in the year before bankruptcy, the trustee in your bankruptcy case may try to recollect some portion to redistribute the repayment more evenly across all your creditors.

Written by Jonathan Petts
Updated August 24, 2021

First of all, kudos for being the kind of person who honors their debts and cares about maintaining relationships! When you are struggling with your finances, it can be difficult to pay the money you owe — especially when you feel like you have to choose between paying back credit card companies and paying back the people you love.

When you owe money to several people, you may have to choose how to prioritize paying back your debts. If you choose to pay back people who you're close to without paying back businesses like your credit card company, the bankruptcy trustee may try to take some of that money and distribute it to other people you owe. 

Here's an example:

John owes $10,000 to his credit card company, $10,000 to his bank, and $10,000 to his boss. John pays back the $10,000 he owes to his boss but does not pay anything to the bank or the credit card company. Then, John files Chapter 7 bankruptcy the next month. The trustee in John's bankruptcy case contacts his boss to get the $10,000 back. The trustee takes the money from John's boss and gives $3,000 to the credit card company, $3,000 to the bank, and $3,000 back to John's boss. He keeps $1,000 as his fee for securing the money. John gets his discharge, and the rest of his debt is forgiven.

This situation can get even stickier when you repay debts to friends and/or family. Will the trustee come after the people you care about for the money? The answer depends on a few factors:

  • Was that repayment at least $600? If not, the law does not allow the trustee to reclaim that money, and you do not need to report it on your bankruptcy forms.

  • Does the trustee know and care about the repayment? It is incredibly important that you list all repayments over $600 and don't hide anything from the trustee. Hiding repayments could cause the court to deny your bankruptcy or even to press charges against you! But the trustee may or may not notice or care about your repayment. Trustees are people too. Sometimes they overlook things, whether by choice or by accident.

  • Is it worth the trustee's time to try to get the money? Trustees are usually highly paid lawyers. The time they spend trying to get money back from people is time they do not have to make money doing other things. For example, say a trustee usually makes $200/hour. It will take them ten hours to get $1,000 back from your dad. In the end, they only earn a small percentage of the reclaimed money. Since they'll make far less trying to reclaim the money than they would doing other work at their usual rate, odds are good they are not going to try to get the money back from your dad.

  • Who was the money repaid to? Trustees know what it's like to have friends and family members, and most of them understand that trying to take back the money you paid to yours could damage those relationships. Sometimes this means that they will not attempt to collect on personal repayments.

  • Will the trustee be able to collect the money? If the person you repaid has spent all of the money and does not have any assets for the trustee to collect, the likelihood of the trustee trying to collect the repayment is low.

Because there are no hard-and-fast rules about when trustees will and won't attempt to collect repayments that you made to insiders, it is important that you talk with the people who might be affected. While this can be scary, don't panic. Most of the time your loved ones will be happy to help you do what is necessary to get your life back on track. This is especially true if the odds of the trustee trying to collect money from them are low based on the criteria above.

Some people had success using messages like this one to explain what is going on to their friends and family:

"Hey dad, thanks again for loaning me that $1,000 at Christmas. I couldn't have paid my bills without it! I am taking steps to get my financial life back on track, and the biggest and most important of these steps is eliminating my debt by filing bankruptcy. As part of that process, the court requires that I tell them about any repayments I made to friends or family during the past year. Because I paid you back the $1,000 you loaned me, there is a chance that the trustee may take a portion of that back from you to repay the other people I owe money to.  I know you spent the money and that your finances are tight this year, so the odds are low, but I wanted to give you a heads up. There is nothing I can do to prevent a collection effort, but if it happens, I will pay you back ASAP once my debts are discharged. Because I will no longer be paying a ton of money to my credit card companies each month, it shouldn't take me long. I'm really sorry about this, and I SO appreciate you supporting me as I get my life back on track!"

Upsolve will help ensure that you have the best chance of getting a fresh start, but it is up to you how you want to handle discussing repayments you made to people close to you. The important thing is that you report these repayments on your paperwork. When in doubt, you can always ask your trustee what they might do about a specific repayment that you made. The court will send you the trustee's contact information after you file. 

If you repaid friends or family, take a deep breath, be honest with them about what might happen, and think about how good it is going to feel to get your fresh start. Who knows, maybe you can even be the one lending them money next time! You've got this, and we are here to support you if you need any help.

Written By:

Jonathan Petts


Jonathan Petts has over 10 years of experience in bankruptcy and is co-founder and CEO of Upsolve. Attorney Petts has an LLM in Bankruptcy from St. John's University, clerked for two federal bankruptcy judges, and worked at two top New York City law firms specializing in bankrupt... read more about Jonathan Petts

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